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BEING YOUR TOTALITY

June 2006

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"Material richness is very simple.
The real problem is how to be inwardly rich."

Osho


Hello and welcome to the June 2006 edition of the "being yourself for a living" newsletter.

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As I mentioned a few weeks back, I have started hosting a weekly show on entrepreneurship on Talk Radio 702 and 567 CAPETALK, every Wednesday night from 20h30-21h00 GMT+1. You can tune in from anywhere in the world on either site. Join us!

The band's first gig went really well and we will be playing live again soon. I will let you know when.

In this edition I am including two emails I received recently, which articulate different experiences of what it is to be on the journey of being alive. They are followed by something I wrote on happiness.



F R O M   Y O U

Dear Robin

Great to hear from you and to know that you are happy. Quite an achievement!

<>On my side I've been having the most frustrating few months. Nothing seems to be working out. Everything I try to do is thwarted by some or other factor.

<>It really does take a lot out of us to keep going on our own - to not have a boss getting us up every morning, to not have the motivation of a set salary.

<>Sometimes I just feel like throwing in the towel and going off to some isolated island to eat bananas all day! It just seems such a great struggle for very little in the end.

Besides the intrinsic value of what we do in our business, there would be really no reason to work because what we get out of it financially at this moment isn't enough for the bills we have.

I've been having this conversation for the longest time and I have no idea how much longer we are going to keep going.

Wish I could sing - things would be a lot easier. Talking of which - how's the band going? Have you decided on a name?


Sonia Lavoura
Lisbon, Portugal - 28 June 2006


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Hi Robin
 
Amanda King (WesBank, Port Shepstone) here! Just thought I'd share with you that since returning from your last workshop I have not looked back for a moment!

I was convinced that life couldn't get any better, only to realise that every day is a new beginning, a new opportunity. I am now finding myself more and more, since I am now actively thinking about it.

I realise that you create your own destiny and happiness. At work I am so busy, writing a new record this month, and every day rushes by.

I love my family, my job and friends and realise each day how much I have to be thankful for.
Thank you for making me THINK about it again.
 
Amanda King
Kwazulu Natal South Coast - 1 June 2006




B E I N G   Y O U R   T O T A L I T Y

Robin Wheeler, 8 June 2006

Most of us mistake pleasure for happiness and are in constant search of feeling good. But that brings with it pain in equal measure, because pleasure is on the surface, the circumference of our being, and the circumference of our being is ruled by duality.

On the surface, life is about opposites, and true happiness cannot be found there. Pleasure can be found fleetingly, but it always carries its shadow. At the centre, though, life is not a duality. If we can access our centre, we can access a much deeper feeling of joy.

That joy is our true nature, our very essence. It doesn't go up or down, or have an opposite, it simply is. In the absence of all we have adopted from the outside, it rises up and fills us with what it really means to be alive.

We are raised as social beings and, as such, understand ourselves in terms of all we have been told over and over from the outside. These messages are not only superficial, they are contradictory, which leaves us feeling empty and confused.

To be our true selves, we need to be rebellious, to follow our inner truth despite the pressures of the world around us. This leads us to an infinite well of joy and creativity.

We still live in a world of duality, though. By understanding this as the nature of things, we stop pursuing the one pole and running from its opposite, and, thus, free ourselves from the vicious circle.

We find our centre and then begin to really enjoy the duality. Like a wheel, the circumference goes round and the centre stays still.

We also, in sinking into our deeper selves, free ourselves from time. Time is a function of the mind, which obsesses with either the past or the future. The present, however, is timeless, and mindless. If we live in the present, the emptiness and problems fade, and the fullness rises to fill us.

From there we can live each moment totally, without fear or regret. We can love, create, contribute and do business to the full. We can be ourselves totally, where true and untouchable happiness permeates our being and flows outwards to others like ripples on a lake.

So be yourself, totally. Be like a musician playing live on stage, free from time to think, giving  your all in union with the moment, and the music of life.

Forget the past and the future, live totally now. Be yourself completely, in the present. The future will follow from that and take care of itself.


G O O D B Y E   F O R   N O W

Those are my thoughts for this edition. All the best to you.

Robin


"Life is a promise; fulfil it."
                                    Mother Teresa

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