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Hello
and welcome
to my July 2008 newsletter. In this issue:
_____________________________________ Your Self Esteem
How do
you feel about yourself? This
is a very important question...
Everything we do in life relates to our sense of self. When you are 'being yourself for a living', which we are all doing to some degree, your self esteem is central. It determines your success and well being. We are
born with a whole self esteem, brimming with innocence and intrinsic
fullness. However, that is not prized in society. The external is
prioritised and imposed on us systematically and relentlessly and we
lose our inner connectedness.
Very few of us are valued, supported and validated for who we are. Most of us are faced with re-establishing our own self esteem on our journey of being and self actualising for a living. So how do you do it? First,
you trust. Trust that you are meant to be here as you are. Your being
is complete in itself and you can rest assured in your presence and
nature. How can you argue with the whole that created you? Let go
and trust life.
Second,
connect with yourself. Feel your body, it is your root system in the
world. Then
go deeper. Feel your heart. Go deeper still and find your spirit.
Third,
accept your emotions. They are your guide. Repressing them cuts you
off, feeling them awakens you.
Repressed, emotions take over and make you do counterproductive things.
Embraced, they empower you to manage yourself well.
Fourth,
do what's right for you. Your emotions will tell you what that is. Your
groundedness will be your base. Your trust will see you through. Stand
your ground. Assert yourself!
The world
is full of insecure people living in fear, acting defensively and doing
what they don't want to do.
Knowing, loving and asserting yourself will help bring you what you want and need. This experience will strengthen your self esteem. The cycle
will be reversed so that you keep growing into who you are meant
to be. And that will help the world.
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personal capacity." _____________________________________ INSIGHTS by
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month." Destiny Magazine
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